I am now 38 weeks pregnant and its a bit too late. So now instead i'm starting a end of pregnancy/baby's first year blog instead.
Being the compulsive person i am, i am trying to get everything ready and finalised in advance. (i have three weeks left till my due date!) Working with a husband like mine on achieving that goal is a bit of an impossibility! He's the type of person who leaves things till the last minute which in my case just increases my stress levels.
Why is it hard for men to understand that there is more to having a baby than popping the cute thing out of your privates! Yes women have been doing it since the beginning of time but we are at an age where we have conveniences and all sorts of things to make it easier for us women and we - well most of us anyway - would like to get all the preparations out of the way now so we can focus on all the other difficulties that come when the baby comes - breast feeding, sleepless nights, child development, plus all the changes occurring in our bodies afterwards that we need to deal with. Imagine having stitches for one thing! But these things men don't know and don't want to know about. I for one would really not want to go around looking for things we still need while i'm trying to get baby into a routine!
Anyway, that is my whinge for the day. Overall though my husband is being quite good. While he might need a massive push and a bit of arguing to get him to understand that some things are definitely needed, he has driven me around to all the stores without complaint. Not once. He tries to take care of me as much as he knows how and admittedly at one stage was giving me back massages every night when my back was in a bad state and while there have been complaints there, he never stopped giving them to me. :)
The other big issue i'm having is baby names! i never thought it would be this difficult to name your baby. It is one of the hardest things. I used to write stories all the time and coming up with the names was one of my favourite parts. But trying to come up with a name for an actual person whom you know nothing about and don't know how they will look is very hard! We have decided to pick a shortlist then wait to meet the baby before we pick one for sure.
You are also probably wondering if we actually know the gender of the baby. Well we do but we're not telling :)
i'll stop now but i'll be back!
Being the compulsive person i am, i am trying to get everything ready and finalised in advance. (i have three weeks left till my due date!) Working with a husband like mine on achieving that goal is a bit of an impossibility! He's the type of person who leaves things till the last minute which in my case just increases my stress levels.
Why is it hard for men to understand that there is more to having a baby than popping the cute thing out of your privates! Yes women have been doing it since the beginning of time but we are at an age where we have conveniences and all sorts of things to make it easier for us women and we - well most of us anyway - would like to get all the preparations out of the way now so we can focus on all the other difficulties that come when the baby comes - breast feeding, sleepless nights, child development, plus all the changes occurring in our bodies afterwards that we need to deal with. Imagine having stitches for one thing! But these things men don't know and don't want to know about. I for one would really not want to go around looking for things we still need while i'm trying to get baby into a routine!
Anyway, that is my whinge for the day. Overall though my husband is being quite good. While he might need a massive push and a bit of arguing to get him to understand that some things are definitely needed, he has driven me around to all the stores without complaint. Not once. He tries to take care of me as much as he knows how and admittedly at one stage was giving me back massages every night when my back was in a bad state and while there have been complaints there, he never stopped giving them to me. :)
The other big issue i'm having is baby names! i never thought it would be this difficult to name your baby. It is one of the hardest things. I used to write stories all the time and coming up with the names was one of my favourite parts. But trying to come up with a name for an actual person whom you know nothing about and don't know how they will look is very hard! We have decided to pick a shortlist then wait to meet the baby before we pick one for sure.
You are also probably wondering if we actually know the gender of the baby. Well we do but we're not telling :)
i'll stop now but i'll be back!